I assume BILL223TOYS asks here because most of us have collections of things.

I myself have probably lost, forgotten, neglected, given away, decimated or just plain destroyed more things than would ever fit in those two big closets. Some really good things, too. But at the end of the day, it's all just .... stuff, pleasant distractions. A brother is family, and always will be. The most important thing is to make it right with your family, because none of the rest of it really matters without that.

Lawrence Nepodahl offers some very sound advice.